By: Richard L. Smith
In the heart of Irvington Township, Mayor Tony Vauss began 2024 by celebrating a remarkable woman who has been an integral part of the community for over four decades.
On Thursday, January 4th, RLS Media was in attendance when the Edward & Lois Gray Apartments became the setting for a heartwarming celebration honoring Ms. Fannie Mae Neal Gordon's 100th birthday. About 30 residents and Neal-Gordon's family gathered to celebrate this extraordinary milestone.
Fannie Mae Neal, born in 1924 in Stanaford, West Virginia, grew up as the oldest of five siblings. She married John Gene Gordon, a coal miner, at the age of 20.
Ms. Phyllis Beauvoir, Fannie Mae Neal's eldest daughter, shared with RLS Media a snapshot of her family's history.
She recounted how her father, John Gene, a coal miner and World War II military medic, embarked on a journey with Fannie Mae Neal from West Virginia in pursuit of better opportunities.
This move was especially driven by the closure of mines, marking a significant transition in their lives and opening new paths.
Their journey led them first to Orchard Street and then to the Dayton Street housing projects, where they raised their family under the guiding principles of respect and discipline.
Fannie Mae and John Gene's union brought forth a remarkable legacy of 10 children, 50 grandchildren, 89 great-grandchildren, and 27 great-great-grandchildren.
Despite facing the dissolution of her marriage and the loss of her daughter, Mona Lisa Crawford, in 1989, Fannie Mae's resilience never faltered.
Muraad Abdus-Salaam, Fannie Mae's ninth child and a retired Newark firefighter known for his public service, shared a poignant memory with RLS Media.
He recounted a significant family tragedy – the loss of his sister, Mona Lisa Crawford, in 1989.
Mona Lisa, the fourth of ten siblings, passed away at the age of 30 due to an undisclosed medical condition. Abdus-Salaam reflected on the profound impact this had on their mother, saying,
"Mom still cries to this day for losing Mona Lisa. She's never gotten over her baby dying." This heartfelt reminiscence underscores the deep familial bonds and the enduring impact of loss within the family.
She raised her children single-handedly, instilling in them the values of compassion, honor, and love. Her strength during these times was a testament to her character and her deep faith.
Each of Fannie Mae's sons learned to honor and appreciate women, a lesson she emphasized consistently.
"The ways of a woman is never known" -Fannie Mae Neal Gordon
Ms. Doreen Gordon, her daughter-in-law, shared her adoration for Fannie Mae, describing her as the best mother-in-law one could wish for. The bond they shared, likened to that of Naomi and Ruth from the Bible, was built on mutual admiration, love, and faith.
Mayor Vauss, upon learning about Fannie Mae's fondness for cooking, noted her Southern culinary skills and passion for interior design. Although she no longer cooks, she remains active in her community, participating in various activities at the Mount Carmel Guild, including learning braille and engaging in crafts like jewelry making and woodworking.
Family said Fannie Mae's passion for travel and family gatherings showcased her strong family values. Her insistence on eating at her favorite restaurant, "Shoney's," during trips to West Virginia and her playful interaction with her family members illustrated her spirited and loving nature.
Living independently at Edward F. Gray Apartments since 1981, Fannie Mae continues to inspire those around her.
Ms. Kimberly Pierre, the Senior Projects/Health and Wellness Coordinator from The Mayor's Office, was present alongside Mayor Tony Vauss for this special occasion.
She had the honor of reading the proclamation that celebrated the remarkable life of Ms. Fannie Mae Neal Gordon, acknowledging her as an incredible family matriarch and a devoted resident of Irvington, NJ, and Essex County. Her presence added another formal recognition to the celebration, highlighting Mrs. Gordon's significant contributions to her community.
Her story is a powerful reminder of the impact one person can have on a community and family. Her centennial celebration was not just a marking of years but a tribute to a life lived with courage, strength, grace, and an enduring devotion to her family and God.
